I do not have respect for those men who do not do their share and proudly claim they have a “wife”. Equally, I do not have respect for women who can live with such a husband. Worse who claim they do love their husbands. “Do you love yourself enough to be able to allow yourself to be treated as a equal human being?” is my question to these women. When the tables turn, when these women are looked down rather than looking down on the women who are apparently not looking after their family well by making their men do the job, things will start to change. Well, one can hope. 


3 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. devakumari
    Mar 27, 2012 @ 08:27:05

    To like this words I created this account..100% true.


  2. mona
    Apr 12, 2012 @ 16:02:51

    Hi Prema,

    It is a very grey area Prema. Sometimes it appears like men do more, and
    sometimes it appears like women do more. My own opinion is each should
    communicate with the other and there should be caring and working together for the family and certainly no bitterness, then it really doesn’t matter.
    – mona


  3. thenormalself
    Apr 12, 2012 @ 20:33:11

    It is not at all grey area Mona. This is the basic problem we, women, face. Conditioning starts in order to make this happen. Unfortunately this conditioning is done by the women, the mothers. Sure, they were conditioned enough to believe that they are doing the right thing by conditioning their daughters and sons. But the cycle continues. I just do not have respect for those women and men who had the environment and opportunity to look above it but didn’t grab it or still fake it. I just do not have respect for them.


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